One October night, late, I wrote my signature. I was tipsy, exhausted, and joyful. Downstairs in the art gallery, our wedding reception was winding down. Upstairs, Chris and I and Paul Frisby, our friend and wedding officiant, put pen to paper. "Don’t ruin my record," Frisby said, "Everyone I’ve married is still together." With that, he tucked his pen into his pocket and made his way home. Chris and I regarded one another for a minute before returning to our party. A sal